Monday 10 August 2009

Can other people tell what we're thinking?

Last night, I was reading an article about whether other people are better at telling us what we're thinking than we are ourselves. I'm a firm believer that other people can absolutely pick up on how we're feeling.

Have you ever been to a networking event and not been feeling your best? Do you find yourself surrounded by other people or do they naturally stay away from you? If it's the latter, other people may be picking up on your vibes and stay away from you even if you're trying your hardest to hide how you're really feeling.

This also means that if you're desperate for business and are feeling quite depressed about things, others will pick up on this and stay away from you when you want them to do the opposite.

If you want to attract rather than repel people, you need to be giving out the message that you want people to come and speak to you and to do this, you need to really believe it. So, try thinking positively for the next couple of days and see what difference it makes!

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